tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1663387575124357304.post6480654761975961505..comments2011-03-02T08:45:04.261-06:00Comments on nothing less than an adventure: the half way markGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00573827704430012368noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1663387575124357304.post-55734605763036285492010-12-03T19:21:03.480-06:002010-12-03T19:21:03.480-06:00Oh and yes A you will be seeing me more! ; )Oh and yes A you will be seeing me more! ; )Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00573827704430012368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1663387575124357304.post-20907039160555357682010-12-03T19:19:56.812-06:002010-12-03T19:19:56.812-06:00A, you'll need to clarify what ya mean about t...A, you'll need to clarify what ya mean about the dependent independent person part lol, I've been called the "married-single girl" forever = ) any chance of hearing someone else's view on this helps me understand myself!Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00573827704430012368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1663387575124357304.post-12601983425920746402010-12-03T16:02:26.058-06:002010-12-03T16:02:26.058-06:00I look at this way, now you have no excuses to not...I look at this way, now you have no excuses to not come see me more.<br /><br />:D<br /><br />Seriously though, you are the most dependent independent person I have ever met. My house could be your Starbucks you know, I'm not far away and my coffee tastes great! ;)Dreamscapes Baby Boutiquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08298533834338071097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1663387575124357304.post-1849745361100291442010-12-03T14:46:33.105-06:002010-12-03T14:46:33.105-06:00We may be far, but I'm sure we can manage some...We may be far, but I'm sure we can manage something! Or I depending on if R is deployed!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1663387575124357304.post-64227187528299758262010-12-03T12:36:00.333-06:002010-12-03T12:36:00.333-06:00Love you both so much!
Miss eyes of blue for su...Love you both so much! <br /><br />Miss eyes of blue for sure, get a blog, it's great therapy! I have a livejournal but haven't written in it FOREVER. I realized after I started this one how much I loved doing it, to have to look back on to laugh, cry and remember what I've gone through when I thought I couldn't. What better time to start documenting THIS adventure, because this one is going to be a loooooong one! (I'll write about school in a bit)<br /><br />Elle, oh dear you have always been able to say exactly what I needed to hear or in this case read. With H & R being so much alike in ways I will just go with this as the norm then! I'm going to let go of the things I took out of the closet and send them away with my things. The things he says to do after he is gone is going to have to wait and I'm going to put it out of my mind for now (running out of room as it is in there). I'm a little worried about being here because the people that would drag me out of my bed are in OK not TX...but hey this is an adventure, that's what I've been saying from the start and I've got to remember that, and that I DO have amazing friends = )Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00573827704430012368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1663387575124357304.post-30691678965111000552010-12-03T10:20:45.252-06:002010-12-03T10:20:45.252-06:00I don't know if it's just our guys that do...I don't know if it's just our guys that do it or many others, but R did the same thing before he left. He bagged up clothes he couldn't fit anymore along with everything else he wouldn't need either in trash bags or in his luggage for storage. He wanted the trash bags of clothes tossed or donated, but after he left I just couldn't do it. They stayed in his little closet until everything got packed up and sent here to OK. I had to take over all of his stuff before he left, too. We didn't/don't have as much stuff to take care of as you guys do, but it was definitely overwhelming for me. Have H teach you everything he can before he leaves. I had post-its everywhere of what to do, when to do it and how. Lists help a Lot when they leave, at least they did for me because I love lists, too. =).<br />R and I are more than willing to help you with ANYTHING you need/want. If we had a two bedroom apartment, you'd be more than welcome to stay here with us, fur babies and all. The coffee won't be hard to do =). If you need any help, call me and I'll talk you through it! Luckily, we have the same coffee maker! hehe! It was hard getting used to him not being home to either annoy me or do the simplest things. The physical aspect didn't even come into light until a month later. I was too focused on the fact that he's not here to do this or that. If H leaves early, you'll be getting Birthday pressies from us early as well! Gotta help with the Hello Kitty invasion! <br />It's going to be hard, there's no sugar coating that, but you've got people to help you through it whether you call or not! As soon as R left, everyone had to force me to get out of the house other than for work. I was a zombie until I became more comfortable with the idea that he was gone. <br />People that haven't gone through this already will still be able to help whether they understand what's going on or not. At first, I thought that since they didn't understand, How can they help me? I think that's why I miss them even more, because they helped me so much through the months of BMT, Medical holdover, more BMT, and the month I could handle of waiting through Tech (obviously I didn't wait long on that hehe). <br />Don't let anyone tell you that moving out for a month or two to be near your husband is stupid. I was called stupid for uprooting my life to spend 2 months near my husband. It was beyond worth it. Also, you and I never would have met! That just would have made it a very boring life indeed! My birthday and thanksgiving would have been sucky without you, H, and the fur babies. It's not just about the birthday of course. You guys letting me invade your home for a few days when I was on my way back home was what I needed. You told me to get up out of bed and stop being a sad panda. It's what I needed that no one else could do (partly because I think they just didn't know I really needed that type of attitude to unfocus on what was going on). Not to say they didn't help, of course! They had their own ways of helping me cope. <br /><br />This reply is turning into a blog of my own! I think I need to dig mine out of the virtual dusty box and start it up again! I have so much in my head!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1663387575124357304.post-77517921764168515312010-12-03T10:20:15.006-06:002010-12-03T10:20:15.006-06:00I love your blog! :) I've been wanting to sta...I love your blog! :) I've been wanting to start a blog. Maybe I will once finals are over. First off, the hello kitty hat is so you! It's adorable! Secondly, how's or how'd the enrolling coming along? I hope you like your schedule! I will come to your graduation and take pictures! Everything must be documented!!! haha!!<br /><br />ps...I have some friends who also have a blog that I comment on and everyone uses special names in place of every person they speak of. everyone uses names that you know who they are just by their nickname, hense "eyes of blue". haha! love you g!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12277115788595235898noreply@blogger.com